To Live Better and Achieve More Goals
As a new year comes, people were often in making their own New Year’s Resolutions wherein they promise themselves to change their lives for the better. Every new year, I really don’t write many detailed resolutions on a paper unlike others. Honestly, why do they need to list so many things they want to do even though they can’t do them. Being specific on what are my plans in the future is already enough for me as my resolutions.
Last year, I asked myself if I really changed things for my own good. But to admit, I still have not changed the things that should be change in me. As I reflect back, there were a lot of things I surely regret, particularly those I did not do enough for me to become a better person. It’s so frustrating… I am still the shy girl who really don’t want to talk to somebody. A frustrated bunny when not fed and easily gets angry at small things. A clumsy one as if all the bad luck in life is in me. But I should became aware of the truth that I must change not for others but for myself.
Even though my life will be different this year, I know new opportunities will come to me. I had experienced great joy and deep sorrows in the past but I am still here looking forward to accomplish things this 2021. Becoming more assertive and gaining more self-confidence is one of the things I want to develop or improve. I also want to become more dependent upon opinion of others because sometimes I seem too benevolent and justify inappropriate behaviors of the people around me. I should also simply accept myself as a human being who has an inclination of making mistakes and put them in the path of improvement.
But the most important I want to carry off this year is to become more honest in myself. To have a positive mindset even when life throws lemons at me and instead of 'running to the hills", I should gather up courage and face all the problems I will conquer in this year. To have a clear vision of what I really want to do in my life that can make me happy without hesitation and doubts. To accept everything about myself and start a new chapter of my life with no regrets in the end.
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